7 Hidden Cases of Sexism You Might Be Overlooking
Understanding Sexism in Modern Society
Sexism is a term widely recognized in today’s world. Its psychological impact is comparable to any other form of human dignity violation. However, many people find sexism amusing rather than offensive. This perspective is not only held by those who intentionally belittle others based on gender but also by the victims themselves, who often fail to recognize or address these offenses. While women have become adept at identifying overt sexist remarks, there are subtle forms of sexism that often go unnoticed and unchallenged. This article explores seven instances of hidden sexism that you might be overlooking.
Emotional Stereotyping
Women frequently face shaming for being overly emotional, a trait often stereotypically associated with their gender. Labels such as ‘overly emotional,’ ‘bitchy,’ or ‘frigid’ are used negatively and are inherently sexist. If a man is angry or calm in certain situations, it is seen as a reflection of his character. Conversely, a woman’s emotions are often attributed to her gender, implying that her feelings are innate rather than a response to circumstances. This tendency to ascribe specific traits to a ‘female nature’ is a form of sexism that many fail to recognize. It leads to psychological distress for those subjected to such shaming and perpetuates a culture where emotional expression is equated with weakness and instability.
Health Surveys and Stereotypes
In November of last year, Refinery29 published an advertisement addressing menstruation and PMS in the modern world. Viewers were shown a short scene where a work team, consisting of three women and two men, discussed a work problem and an approaching deadline. One woman reacted very emotionally, raising her voice and demanding an immediate solution. The other team members reacted differently—some remained silent, others tried different approaches, and some rolled their eyes or turned away. After the scene, viewers were asked who they thought was on their period. Many found the question strange and inappropriate, but they all agreed it was the woman who was shouting. The second question was more straightforward but less expected: who did they think was the boss? Viewers concluded it was the same shouting woman. This discussion highlighted that regardless of whether a woman is on her period, she can express her character and often achieve her goals through her temperament.
Menstruation, PMS, and other ‘female problems’ are often portrayed in a sexist manner in modern society. A woman experiencing PMS, a condition with its symptoms and treatments, is often considered incapable of rational thought or action. This leads to many problems in her life and the lives of those around her being attributed to her gender and menstrual cycle. Additionally, the cancellation of male contraceptive releases, which caused a media stir, was another instance of sexism that many failed to recognize.
Clothing and Appearance
Appearance is objectively important to everyone, as we often judge others based on their looks. However, in a world where most people aim to dress stylishly, a woman’s appearance can often be a target for sexism. In discussions about violence, comments like ‘the victim is to blame for dressing provocatively’ are common. This issue is not limited to violence. It is rare for a man to be commented on for dressing provocatively, which would compromise his gender. This context is further complicated by homophobia and a lack of tolerance. While homophobia can be subtle, criticism of a woman’s appearance is often overt and comes with a list of associated problems for which the woman is held responsible due to her clothing choices.
Relationships and Social Expectations
The bachelor lifestyle has always been seen as attractive and continues to be so. The image of a man focusing on himself, achieving his goals, and being successful with women is appealing. However, a woman choosing to be single is often viewed as lonely, unable to find a partner, and destined to be an ‘old maid.’ Why can’t a woman who chooses a career over family be admired? What is wrong with a woman recognizing her unpreparedness for marriage or not having found a suitable partner? Why is a single woman without children and sexual relationships seen differently from a single man who has not succeeded in his relationships? This form of sexism is particularly insidious as it is embedded in our cultural fabric, affecting how people approach their life development, realize their potential, and perceive gender roles.
Media Representation
For many years, media culture has portrayed strong, attractive, and successful men who can achieve anything, win the hearts of beautiful women, and save the world. These characters are designed to be attractive, sexual, deep, and interesting. They are figures to emulate and follow, even if they are villains. However, female characters often lack the same depth and appeal. While there are excellent films with strong, interesting, and attractive female characters, there are fewer films with well-developed female roles. Media culture often features female archetypes such as the ‘hero’s love interest’ or the ‘sacrificing mother,’ but where are the role models? Sexism is present in both cinema and literature. Only recently have more films emerged featuring strong women who are attractive in their individuality.
Sexism Among Women
One of the most dangerous forms of sexism is when it comes from women directed at other women. It is difficult to recognize because it is often assumed that only men can belittle women. This has created a reputation for women as victims or mean girls. When women discriminate against or belittle other women, they often go unnoticed, even by themselves. Meanwhile, societal expectations continue to shape behaviors and perceptions.
Conclusion
Sexism is not always overt and can manifest in subtle ways that are often overlooked. Recognizing these hidden forms of sexism is the first step towards addressing and eliminating them. By understanding and challenging these stereotypes, we can work towards a more equitable and respectful society.
