10 Reasons Why Other Women Might Envy You

In our world, unfortunately, there are too many negative emotions, and one of them is hatred. It doesn’t have to be outright aggression, but people around you might perceive you unfavorably, and often it’s not just a matter of taste, but the influence of certain factors. We decided to figure out what exactly causes people to hate, and for what merits a woman can become an enemy to other women.

Beauty

Beauty is the main source of envy among others, as we are all dependent on the opinions of others, even if these very surroundings do not represent our values. If you are beautiful, charming, and know how to attract the attention of the male audience in a company, be prepared for the fact that other women who lack self-confidence and an adequate understanding of people’s relationships will hate you, no matter how kind, responsive, and wonderful you are. Of course, it is much more rational to learn from the positive examples of others and absorb their objective merits, but envy and rivalry blind common sense. So if you are not very popular in the team, you can console yourself with the fact that you are really good and make others doubt themselves.

Intelligence

Being smart is great. Everyone likes to communicate with smart people, and guys, no matter how you look at it, are more attracted to smart girls than silly ones, even though they sometimes say the opposite. But if you are so smart that people around you start Googling to at least roughly grasp the thought of your story, or they start feeling that with your mind you are trying to suppress everyone around you, then hatred or irritation is a natural reaction. You should be careful, especially if you communicate in a female team. Do not correct other people or give them advice if no one asked you for it, do not concentrate on the fact that you are smart in any way. You should not make a disgruntled face if you lack intellectual depth in the company, because many people just like to have fun. Be simpler or choose a different circle of communication.

Hard Work

Whether you are a mother of many children who manages to cook a delicious dinner from environmentally friendly products grown in her own garden, or a businesswoman who completes all tasks quickly and efficiently, people will still find something to condemn you for. In a female company, it is rare to find pride in sisters, but there is plenty of rivalry. Especially if you move in a circle of women who are content with a banal minimum of success and joys of life, you will always be perceived as an irritating figure, constantly reminding them of what they failed to achieve.

Gossip

Despite the fact that most people are prone to gossip, gossips themselves are not loved by anyone. This behavior model is a way to realize oneself at the expense of humiliating or blackening other people, and, as a rule, behind their backs. Try not to participate in such discussions, otherwise you risk remaining forever in the ranks of gossips, who are not loved because they do not represent anything valuable and only talk about others. Value your time and have respect for yourself and others.

Confidence

Confidence is a quality that is very difficult to cultivate in oneself, and even if it is possible, anything can disrupt the inner balance. That is why people perceive the presence or absence of confidence in others so acutely. If you are wondering why other women perceive you as an enemy or do not strive to open up in conversation, are afraid or generally avoid communication with you, then perhaps the reason is that you are confident in yourself and do not forget to show it to others.

Provocative Clothing

For some women, high heels are almost the same as a mini skirt paired with fishnet tights, worn to show everyone how sexy and accessible you are. Especially if in your environment women do not wear high heels, but prefer flat soles and sports shoes, then with such clothes you can cause discontent. It’s simple: people get the impression that with your appearance you want to impress others. The fact that someone cannot wear high heels or provocative dresses speaks of their insecurity and narrow-mindedness, but your common sense may not be understood, as people are sometimes aggressively disposed towards those who are different from them.

Weight

Regardless of how much you weigh, fuller women may look at you with envy, perceiving your figure as something they will never have. Instead of taking care of themselves, improving and loving their body as it is, they will secretly hate you for being slimmer. In some cases, you can even observe the opposite effect: you will be ridiculed for being more beautiful or fit.

Strong Personality

Strong women always have their own opinion on everything that happens, they are not easy to confuse, offend, or scare. They are confident in themselves and know exactly what to do. They do not depend on the opinions of others, do not chase universal adoration, do not compete with others in beauty, success, and recognition. They simply do what they like and always know how to stand up for themselves. At the same time, they have all positive qualities, it is always interesting to spend time with them, and life next to them is a real challenge. How can you not hate such people?

Competitiveness

Do you know the type of girls who always have to be right, strive to win in everything, prove to everyone that they are worthy of recognition and attention? They always take the initiative, interfere everywhere they can, and thanks to their spirit of competition, become the center of attention. This type of girl is also very vulnerable, as she does not know how to lose and make mistakes. If you are one of them, then know: perhaps you cause more irritation than respect, and you so want to say: “Calm down.”

Arrogance

The higher your opinion of yourself, the happier and richer you are, the further you are from the real world of real people. You may be hated for your arrogance, because no one likes to be around a person who thinks they are better than others. If arrogant people manage to hide the external manifestations of a “better life” like expensive things, then arrogance in behavior is very difficult to eliminate. Until one day you crash into the opinion of someone who will really be better than you.

For further reading, check out this article on relationships.